hi after reading your e-mail I can sense your worry and desperation.maybe you have read mine under divorce(mrs j Erdem).I also found that not many people new what procedures to undertake.I telephoned the Turkish Embassy in London also the consulate and looked at a web site on the net .If you get divorced in england and your divorce was registed in Turkey you will still be married there.you need to go through the Turkish courts.however if you have residence of your children the turkish courts should withhold that.I am looking into setting up something with the turkish court and the English courts to allow my son to visit,but already having something in place in the Turkish courts just in case he doesn,t return.If not set up you would still get your kids back when it had gone through the courts.
I hope I have been of some help and I know that feeling of fear.
My e-mail at work is cat_heyuk@yahoo.com if i can possibly help