I need advice please. I have been with my turkish partner for 18 months in a very good and stable relationship. We now wish to marry but i have been told that we may have problems because i am 43 and he is 27. My 2 young children love this man so much and i can not take them out of the uk because of my ex husband. He is not after a visa and i dont have any money im just a normal working mum. We just want to be together and get married and at the minute until the kids are older the only way is for him to be with us in the uk. Can u please advise me.