Dear Tiocfaidh,
Honestly, I didn't mean to "humuliate/name" you while saying not to look into the matter narrow mindedly. Apolgies for any inconvenience. Let me put it another way. We should look into all aspects of the issue.In my opinion, the main issue is whether it would be possible have a divorce judgment without her presence at court. Since husband agrees to divorce, her lawyer can initiate proceedings based on the divorce agrement, and with two witnesses,they can obtain judgment easily. Best regards. ICH