I found this site useful although hard to navigate due to alot of the instruction being in turkish however the answers you'd given to others were helpful.
My ex-husband took our son to Turkey for a 3 week holiday and he was thougherly spoiled by all his family.
I hope this will encourage any other English divorcees to try to keep it amicable and keep connections with Turkish relations.
there is a very useful uk site www.tapo.co.uk which can also help with legal matters.
thanks again julieerdem@hotmail.com