I am a Turkish-American woman and have been married to an American for over 10 years. I came to Turkey because we both wanted to live here. He planned to follow and find a job in here once I get a job. I couldn't find an employment for months and my husband wanted me to stay longer. Finally I told him this is not gonna work and I want to go back he told me it is best we lived separete lives. We have a child and he is also American and Turkish. He wants our son to live with me here. At least that is what he says now.

He has cheated on me before in our marriage and I also found some evidence that he may be cheating on me now or has intent to do so. I think it would be difficult to prove adultery in the US courts, but would it be considered as adultery in Turkish courts? And what about the child custody issues? Should I file for a divorce here in Turkey or in the state we lived together? If we divorced through a Turkish court, how could my husband be made to pay child support?